On 9 December 2017 marriage equality was introduced in Australia.

MARRIAGE

Whilst changing your name through marriage is not compulsory, it’s a custom that still occurs today.

SURNAMES

Becoming a parent is a huge and life-changing event no matter what your sexual orientation.

CREATING YOUR GAYBY BABY

You may have a friend or a relative of your partner who may be willing to donate sperm to you or enter into a co-parenting relationship.

SOURCING YOUR SPERM

You can be a biological parent, but not a legal parent. Legal parent status emerges from the following situations.

ARE YOU A LEGAL PARENT?

An unknown donor has no legal rights or obligations to the child.

UNKNOWN DONOR RIGHTS

Before choosing a known donor, be aware that there have been recent cases where a known donor has requested and been granted legal rights to the child.

KNOWN DONORS 

An agreement between you, your partner and a donor is referred to as a donor agreement.

DONOR AGREEMENTS

It’s a good idea to think about embryos when doing your family planning.

WHO OWNS YOUR EMBRYOS?

For lesbians, IVF is a path to parenting that allows each partner to feel physically or biologically connected to their child.

IVF 

A lesbian foster carer takes on the role of a parent to the child for a period of time to make sure a child has a safe and loving home.

BECOMING A FOSTER PARENT

Not every lesbian or lesbian couple chooses to bear children.

ADOPTION

Almost all states now provide for lesbian partners to be listed as a “parent” or (other) “mother” on their child’s birth certificate.

BIRTH CERTIFICATES

It is important to select the person you want to make decisions for you if you were unable to make them for yourself. 

WILLS & MEDICAL INCAPACITY 

Like a will, health insurance is one of those things in life that we don’t always like to think about.

MEDICARE & HEALTH INSURANCE

Unfortunately domestic violence may occur in some lesbian relationships.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Two mothers can now be listed on a child’s passport application, but you should research the laws of the country you are travelling to for safety reasons.

PASSPORTS & TRAVEL

It’s important to know what our rights are and how we might proceed should a situation arise.

EMPLOYMENT & DISRCRIMINATION

Like all couples, lesbian relationships don’t start out with the idea that they might end.

SEPARATION

If you need to get a Divorce, check out the resources here and whether you need a lawyer to assist.

DIVORCE

The primary considerations of the Family Court in looking at what is best for a child are...

FAMILY COURT

Child support is to assist one parent with the day-to-day expenses of raising a child

CHILD SUPPORT

Read the latest cases in the Family Court dealing with lesbian couples and donors.

CASE LAW

Read about lesbians who have created families in different ways.

DEFINITIONS

Surrogacy is an arrangement where a woman, known as the surrogate, agrees to carry a child in pregnancy for the intended parents.

SURROGACY

If you have been with your partner for a long time and have helped raise their child, then you may discuss adopting their child.

ADOPTING YOUR PARTNER'S CHILD

If you have used a sperm donor, then chances are your children will have donor siblings or 'diblings' in Australia and possibly overseas.

DONOR SIBLINGS